MY FRIEnds???

The online Free Dictionary by Farlex defines ‘FRIEND’ as

“A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts. A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.”

Dictionary.com defines similarly;

“A person who is on good terms with another. A person who is not hostile. A person who gives assistance”

In the run of our lives, we are all thought to be as honest as we can be, NO MATTER WHAT! That is, indeed, the making of an honorable and respected person. However, looking back at the definition of ‘FRIEND’* above, honesty just doesn’t cut it!

“...knows, LIKES,...”

“...is on GOOD TERMS with.....NOT HOSTILE....GIVES ASSISTANCE”

Being a ‘FRIEND’ , a ‘GOOD’ friend in that, is really something more complicated that cooking a 5 Star Italian full-course meal. It’s not just about the question of using the correct ingredients and using them at the right time, combining all those subtle, if not ‘cocky’ flavours into one complex-palate-satisfying dinner on the table, but it is about how one come to learn the essentials of when to speak of the appropriate things at the correct moment so as to win a ‘FRIEND’s’ LIKE of you to be in GOOD TERMS with them.

How? All you need is a little seasoning and the correct spice tying up the whole concoction. Yes! This means, LYING. Or does it?

So all friendships are just one big bucket of lousy lies? Not really. Depending on the situation, being a ‘FRIEND’ could just mean lending over your ears or even just your presence at the moment of need, bla bla bla...

To be in GOOD TERMS with your friends and to avoid HOSTILITY, paltering is needed unless you can season your words up to a point where even a roadside fast food tastes better than a 5 Star Restaurant. Honestly, ask yourself, when was the last time you said something in front of your friend(s), so called, “asking for their advice(s)” and in the end using them? Ok, so you do use some of them. But remember how they were suggested to you. Was it ‘seasoned’ or was it a platter of hot plain ‘ol white rice slapped right onto your precious piece of skin on your face? Compare them with those you did not, which scores higher?

To fib or not, sometimes it all winds down to choices of being tactful of situations where the control of one’s’ tongue is of most crucial. It is not an excuse for not knowing the ‘ethics’ of talking or being a person in this complex society of ours. It’s all about will power.

So, yeah, you don’t even know how to hold a spoon to feed yourself, BUT YOU’VE LEARNT!

You don’t know how to drive until you were 18, THERE! YOU’VE LEARNT!

You don’t know how to operate an electronic gadget. But YOU WILL LEARN HOW!

So you don’t know this, you don’t know that, HELL!! No one knows everything! We all learn! How fast we learn it and the reason for it depends pretty much on our very own self. So why not learn having control over mind, body and TONGUE to be a truly GOOD FRIEND while not having to prevaricate at all?!??!???

It’s your body,

It’s your brain,

It’s your tongue,

It’s your mouth,

It’s your life,

Be wise,

Be in control...

*Non-intimate, non-romantic friendship

Sorry Sorry by Super Junior with a 'lil Twist just to Crank it up even MORE!!

Chill....Relax... Have some fun and Laughter with Super Junior!!!

Play the song right at the bottom of the page and follow the lyrics below! ENJOYYyyy....!!!

Sorry Sorry by SuperJunior

Dig a lil’ bit,

Dig a lil’ bit,

Dig a lil’ bit oh!!

Dig a lil’ bit oh!!

oh, OH, oh, OH, oh, OH, oh, OH, oh, OH, oh, OH....

Sorry, Sorry, Sorry, Sorry,

Naked naked naked banjo

naked naked naked baju baju baju “bao you”(hug you) babey,

sorry sorry sorry sorry,

mean you push-up, push-up, push-up,

Sumi, makan makan makan MEGA meet you, meet you, babey.

Para gonna mimpi soggin’, mimpi soggin’,

madam muchy, madam muchy mole a hole you know?

Call, oh!, All your mao(cat) Eh! Moose(hair gel) your mao, Eh! Moose your mao raw-magination jangan bai tuo(please) huan(change) “ya ba”(dumb),

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Sorry, Sorry, Sorry, Sorry,

Naked naked naked banjo

naked naked naked baju baju baju “bao you”(hug you) babey,

sorry sorry sorry sorry,

mean you push-up, push-up, push-up,

Sumi, makan makan makan MEGA meet you, meet you, babey.

Dan dan dan......

Dan dan dan......

Dan dan dan......

Dan dan dan......badan tam tam(body wet wet),

Ca..ca..ca..ca..ca..call I nor Mann teman mesin-gan (machine gun)

Jana kem massagy no hana(flower) patt geh ”ang bo yong”(useless husband)

A neh me ka?(so fast?) Cari Jalan “ban ji”(TOTO),

Maggot mari, zuo...!! (maggot come sit)

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Sorry, Sorry, Sorry, Sorry,

Naked naked naked banjo

naked naked naked baju baju baju “bao you”(hug you) babey,

sorry sorry sorry sorry,

mean you push-up, push-up, push-up,

Sumi, makan makan makan MEGA meet you, meet you, babey

Dan dan dan......

Dan dan dan......

Dan dan dan......

Dan dan dan......badan tam tam (body wet wet),

Less dance...dance...dance...dance,

Less dance...dance...dance...dance

Less dance...dance...dance...dance...dance...dance.

Eh! .............................................. yeahhhh.....,

Mana Maa? (Where’s Mom?)

Sarang Ngai bull shit for the bed, “Da Shi ha! lupa sengat ghost hoh”(Da Shi forgot to sting the ghost)

HEHhh!! Hehhh!! Hehh...!

Ini lagi budak Ching-Gu kata naked neko(cat) shit gold,

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Sorry, Sorry, Sorry, Sorry,

Naked naked naked banjo

naked naked naked baju baju baju “bao you”(hug you) babey,

sorry sorry sorry sorry,

mean you push-up, push-up, push-up,

Sumi, makan makan makan MEGA meet you, meet you, babey.

Dance...dance....dance...dance...

Dig a lil’ bit,

Dig a lil’ bit,

Dig a lil’ bit oh!!

Dig a lil’ bit oh!!

oh, OH, oh, OH, oh, OH, oh, OH, oh, OH, oh, OH

shoot it...!!!

Too fast?!?? Couldn't manage to follow from all the laughter? Haha!! Well you can always REPLAY!! Hahhaha...

Do you not know? Should you??

Most people don't appreciate what they have,

Most people take for granted of everything they have in abundance,

Most people have more than what they can ask for and still feel down,

Most people are just human.

Only some people have little things,

Only some people need little things,

Only some are joyous over things they can dream of but could not possibly own in their life time,

Only some can appreciate over things that means nothing to others,

Only some can see those little things.

Have you ever took for granted over insignificant things that happened which you don't make of?

Have you looked at a paper and see trees and Mother Nature instead of a plain'ol white paper?

Have you felt gratitude looking at garbages?

Have you no feeling (coal miners) when you barbeque?

Have you shown gratitude over little, insignificant, abundant, negligible things?

Do you know who you are?

Do you know of your significance?

Do you know?

Are you sure?

Are you even thankful?

Are you, now...?

Yiu or Mi?

Police asking a blind old man questions....


Police: Who are you?
Old man: I am Yiu.
Police: No, not me, you.
Old man: Yes, I'm Yiu.

Police: Now, just answer the damn question. Who are you?!!

Old man: I have told you.

Police: Are you deaf?

Old man: No, Yiu is blind.

Police: I no blind. You is blind!

Old man: That's what I just said!

Police: Yiu just said what?!?

Old man: I did not said what. I said Yiu.

Police: And that's what I am asking you.

Old man: And Yiu is answering...

Police: Shut up!!

Police asking another guy named Mi nearby...

Police: You!

Old man: Yes?

Police: Not you! Him! (pointing to Mi) What's your name?

Mi: Mi.

Police: Yes, you!

Mi: I am Mi.

Old man: Yes, he is Mi, and I am Yiu.

Brains going hairwire?? better believe it! hahha

LOVE...

Lady: Why do you like me? Why do you love me?

Man: I can't tell the reason... But I really like you...

Lady: You can't even tell me the reason... How can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?

Man: I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.

Lady: Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her, but not you!

Man: OK...OK!!! Erm...because you are beautiful, because your voice is
sweet, because you are caring, because you are loving, because you are thoughtful,
because of your smile, because of your every movements...

Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and became comma.

The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:

Dearest,
Because of your sweet voice that I love you...
Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your care and concern then I like you... Now that

you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile, because of your every movements that I love you... Now can you smile?

Now can you move? No, therefore I cannot love you...

If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love needs a reason? NO!

Therefore, I still love you... And love doesn't need a reason

"When loving someone .... never regret what you do ...
Only regret what you didn't do"

Lily Allen's #$%^ You.

Look inside, look inside ur tiny mind,and look a bit harder.

'cos we're so uninspired,

so sick and tired,

of all the hatred u harbour.

So u say, its not ok to be gay,

well, i think ur just evil.

ur just some racist who can't tie my laces,

ur point of view is MEDIEVAL...

Fuck you! Fuck you very very muuu...uuuu..uuu.uu..ch,

'cos we hate wat u do,

and we hate ur whole crew,

so please don stay in touch

Fuck you! Fuck you very very muuu...uuuu..uuu.uu..ch,

cos ur words don translate,

and its getting quite late,

so please don stay in touch....

do u get,

doooO u get a little kick out of being small minded,

u wan to be like ur father,

his approval ur after,

well, its not how u find it.

do u?

do u really enjoy living a live that's so hateful?

cos there's a whole way ur soul shud be,

and ur losing control of it,

and its really distastefulllLLL...

Fuck you! Fuck you very very muuu...uuuu..uuu.uu..ch,

'cos we hate wat u do,

and we hate ur whole crew,

so please don stay in touch

Fuck you! Fuck you very very muuu...uuuu..uuu.uu..ch,

cos ur words don translate,

and its getting quite late,

so please don stay in touch....

Fuck you!fuck you! fuck youuuu..!

Fuck you!fuck you! fuck youuuu..!

Fuck yoooouUUUuuUUuuUUUUuuuuuu...

you say,

we think need to go to war,

while ur already in one,

cos its people like u,

that need to get sloo,

no one wans ur opinion,

Fuck you! Fuck you very very muuu...uuuu..uuu.uu..ch,

'cos we hate wat u do,

and we hate ur whole crew,

so please don stay in touch

Fuck you! Fuck you very very muuu...uuuu..uuu.uu..ch,

cos ur words don translate,

and its getting quite late,

so please don stay in touch....

Fuck you! fuck you!

fuck you! Fuck you!.....

To date or not to date?

Should a university student find a life partner during university life or should they date only upon graduation? The question is a subjective one that solely depends on the individual himself. However, it cannot be denied that neither choice one picks guarantees a bliss and sweet marriage life in the future. There are many reasons, both good and bad, to find a life partner when one is still studying in university. It all depends on how both individuals handle that relationship.

Looking at the cons, dating during your university studies can affect your studies. You can be too tight up with your other partner and your attention will divert away from your academics perhaps even without you yourself knowing. Some might need your constant accompaniment and some might be always asking for your help in his or her own studies, whether it be assignments or reports, subsequently distracting yourself from your own studies.

Besides that, some dates during university studies can be loveless and prove heartbreaking. Some people date just for, what we call, ‘for university use only’. These people date so that they can take advantage of the individual to ease their own life in university. For example, some girls date a guy having a car in campus so that they can easily go anywhere in or out of campus. When they need a ride, they would just make a call and their ‘driver would be there for them. This too happens to guys as they date because the girl can help him in his assignments and academics, giving himself more time to relax and ‘play around’.

Yet another reason for not finding a life partner during university life is that you may not know your ‘crush’ well enough yet to put high hopes in that relationship. He or she might not end up being your spouse. Perhaps that person is masquerading and is not telling you everything about herself but is only telling you what you want to hear. The truth and honesty between couples are important in a healthy and blissful relationship and this might be the vital element that is lacking in university dates.

Turning our attention the other way round, university dating can actually be very up-building to both of the couples. Such relationships can help in stress management from the academics. Each one can support each other in times of distress and need. Besides, some being far away from home can have the sense of care and love from their lover. This can make one emotionally calm and stable from their homesick, thus, giving them more concentration and focus on their studies.

Besides catering their emotional needs, university dating can improve their academic performances. Both couples can have revisions and discussions together and can complement each other on certain subjects.

In a nut shell, there is nothing wrong to find your life partner during university life. It all depends on how both couples handle their relationship. You must control ‘love’ and not let ‘love’ control you.

Why?

Is it so hard to tell... how to express.... All that i know is actually....actually there.'s only one simple thing bugging  me dis whole life, dis pass 6 to 7 years and still, i don.'t know how or what to do or decide because, just because of a damn simple reason, that is....I myself also do not know...so u found your religion, you love that religion, blieve in what you were taught or heard but what YOU want might not and is actually, can never be  what I actually really want or believe  in. It's up to oneself... It really is agonizing deep into my flesh and bones, needing to follow along, trying to like something for  more than 5 that I never ever really liked or love... How can those people keep it going...??! It's pathetic....I am too!      When should I do it? the impact...perhaps I am just extrapolating the matter to the max but that is of possibility...I can't...I dont know....this is why also I find myself happier not being there...I litterally feel noxious being there, even having to listen. Yea....! exaggerating you might think but that really is it.              YES I Have tried to change, shift the winds of the caused seasick but to no avail for more than 5 years!       What is this!!!! almost 4 and still clicking away....Hell...I HAte this!!    WHEN!?.......

What to do....

3AM and I m sTILL UP...HOLIDAY WITHOUT U IS REALLY A BITTER MOMENT. MISS U... CAN'T DO NOTHING....HAIZ....

Soup Anyone?

As you enter a restaurant, you have a sit and you order your food.

"Our soup of the day is Ginseng chicken soup with red dates and lotus root......."

Normally, typical chinese custom is that we tend to automatically order at least a soup among our dishes of fish, veges, meat, etc.

There is nothing wrong with such a diet. In fact, it gives balanced nutrition for us. That, we cannot deny, NUTRIRIONALLY!

However, think of it this way....

When you eat, your stomach juices production and secretion is stimulated and they are meant to digest the SOLID food particle under the appropriate pH condition. What happens when you down a bowl of soup while eating, or perhaps a drink, a cup, just right after swallowing your last mouthful? It would dilute the acid juices inside, making protein and lipid digestion "harder" for trypsin and pepsin works their best at pH 2-3. Now, this would only logically increases gastric juices production and secretion to raise back to the optimum pH level for the enzyme to work optimumly.

Yes, that might not be a big problem for those still young but in the long run, it might be a big problem for your digestive system. For those aged ones, their stomach juices secretion might not be that active anymore and thus, might suffer from dyspepsia aka indigestion and bloating.

So when to drink(liquid consumption) and when not to? It is advised that any liquid intake should be consumed at least about an hour before or after your meal. The MAIN point to remember is to better drink when no digestion of "solid food particles" is underway.

EAT IN FRONT OF YOUR COMPUTER KIDS!!!

I have just recently learnt that finishing your meal last among your friends and family are actually healthier!! How can that be possible you might ask?

As asians, our daily meal must include rice, noodle, etc which contains carbohydrate. Where does carbohydrate mainly get digested?

NO! you are wrong! It's inside our mouth, in the presence of amylase in our saliva. So, I can only imagine that eating(meals of carbs in it) in front of the computer, whether you be gaming or working, would actually be healthier for our gut!

As far as starch digestion is concern, eating while "computering" can unknowingly let us chew longer in our mouth while we're at the computer. This spells better breakdown of starch in our mouth to glucose and other simpler saccharides of starch by amylase enzyme. It decreases the chances of indigestion as our stomach juices are meant mainly for protein digestion instead of starch.

All of us heard before that eating whilst watching tv or while playing the computer is bad for digestion. How can that be true scientifically in health wise if what I have reasoned out above is actually of true fact?

.................Correct me if I am wrong..........

Christians - A thought to ponder.

Praise be to God...

Let him praise God in sick or in good health,

Let him speak of God's word.....

God the almighty.

God bless you...

God is good.

Lord, thank you for all the blessings...

Do you love Him?

Pray to the Lord and He will listen.

God will help you manage through those trying times.

If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

The Lord is our Father.

Have you ever stop and wonder despite all these and many other more phrases about God and the Lord, something rather important and of high significance is gravely in miss?

Most Christians or churches just stress it all on "OUR LORD", "OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN", "PRAISE BE TO GOD", etc. If you ever stop and wonder, all these... are these GOD's name? Or does He has one?

Have you ever thought even further that because of this sad fact, perhaps who you are worshiping and put faith in is perhaps actually not THE ONE that all this while you thought is? Wouldn't this put you in a state where you might actually be worshiping Satan masquerading as what you initially or now think of as THE ONE with the current booming of various funny and weird church names being set up by almost anyone?

No offence or any intention of letting any of you astray, but one can only wonder all of this after observing various church goers' attitude and behavior in life, outside of church. Psalms. 83:18 states in one version of the Bible saying, " That people may know that you, whose name is......."

And yet in another scripture of Exodus. 9:16 of the same Bible version reading, "....and in order to have my name declared in all the earth." Isaiah. 42:8 clearly clarifies in this Bible version that, " I am ........ That is my name; and to no one else shall I give my own glory, neither my praise to graven images."

Stop and think. What do you call your parents? Relatives? Yes.....

Mom. Dad, Uncle, Aunty...etc....

But is that their name? Is it now? One with no knowledge of your family can refer the TITLE, "aunty" or "uncle" to almost anyone, even a stranger! Yes!!! Does that mean that the TITLES "GOD", "LORD", "FATHER" has difference in meaning than "uncle" and "aunty" only by higher and lower cases of the alphabet?

So now, the big question of the day is that why mostly, and almost all churches nowadays only stress much on "DEAR FATHER IN HEAVEN", or "DEAR LORD" and others of such phrases and none of God's name? Shouldn't the churches be following what the Bible or God is actually commanding that is to glorify HIS NAME and NOT His TITLE?

Now that we know that they fail to uphold HIS commandments, do you still have unwavering faith for the GOD you believe so much in or are you actually putting your faith in the church instead of your true objective, GOD?

This certainly is one BIG question to ponder upon. This is not misleading information for all are backed and reasoned from the Bible itself.

DO YOU NOT BELIEVE IN THE BIBLE?

OR ARE YOU WORSHIPING PRIESTS OR CHURCHES OR SATAN OR THE TRUE GOD?

Why did God's name not being mentioned here at all but substituted with " ....... " ?

Feel free to drop comments for further inquiries.

Should I?

Perhaps i should stop blogging?

I find I have nothing else to blog about.

I find no purpose in blogging.

But last time, I was all about blogging.

why has it changed?

Life is all about changes you say huh?

I have no idea.

There seems to have alot of things that I'm afraid of doing, of confronting.

Wish I had the guts now and here.

crapping...

Hei!!

Maybe blogging's all about how well one is able to crap whatever craps out to the crappy readers (no offense) of the world?

Lost in my own shadows at time..

Perhaps only time will tell?

long or short

near or far

red or green

pretty and ugly

black and white

good and bad

GOOD AND BAD......

The Harry Potter- Transformers Equation.

VS

What do you get when :

1 + 2 = 3

2 x 2 = 4

Good + Good = very good

Good + extra Good = Superbly good

What about......

If you get....

Transformers + Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince = Not Bad

Why NOT BAD?

BECAUSE...!!!!

That's what you'll get when you add something as spectacular as Transformers and ruin the whole equation with something as damned as the sickeningly lousy, worthless, utterly boringly, absolutely time-wasting piece of crappy, lousy movie!!!

It really ain't worth my money and time and everything for this, so-called infamous Harry Potter movie! This one's a total disgrace from what people thought it was. Now it will only remain as a was. There is and will never be anymore good movies from harry potter. It sucks all the faith and funnel it down the filthy, dark, rubbish-filled drain!!

Hell with Harry Potter...

Time to move on....

Slower than a snail!!!

If Ya'll could read this post, this means at least the wireless at BRC is still not bad la..

Rubbish!! Line was and is still so slow here at my block. Even worse still in my room!! What kinda line is this....!! aduh.... ADUH!!! Nothing else to say.... haiz..

All the best to everybody!!! Senior liao wo!!! Getting old, man...

The unfortunate

This is heart breakingly saddening...

You think you're unfortunate enough with troubles? You know nothing yet!!

Click this link (congenital malformation by Vivek Ghapure) and see for yourself the unfortunate of unfortunates...( be warned that the site contains graphical images. Descretion is adviced)

After you've seen all these deformities, you'll start to wonder how brave doctors are and how much under-appreciated they always are by us.

You gotta stop to wonder why these things happen.... how much these victims of such unfortunate happenings suffer in their struggle to live just one day more with the hope of having a more normal and comfortable life through the help of modern surgical advancements and improved surgical methods.

Perhaps it is time to start to get aware of non-profit charitable organizations set-up and give the support and encouragement in which ever way that is proper in aiding these poor friends all around the world!

If you've noticed, all the sufferers are 0f the Indian Communities in India where life is hard and where they struggle even to just have a chance to see the sun rise another day... What more so to say of their capabilities to fee those complicated and expensive medical bills for their treatments? Certainly help from the good-will of the more fortunate all around the world are greatly needed!

Green Ribbon Association Kuching is a non-profitable non-government organization which aids the less fortunate in Kuching to have an improved live. They are all-out more than ever-so-willingly to help anyone hiting the financial brick wall in pursuit of medical treatments.

Guys.... reach out... Help them... for starters..... It will not be unseen...

Food I cant seem to have enough of..

There's a few things I've noticed that I just cant stop loving'em...

So far... they are...

Sugar Bun's Ice cream cone...( so cheap so nice..walao eh!!!)

Sushi King's....Sushi!! Oh man..how come so nice..haiz..

Sickening.. haha..

Wonder when's the next visit...hmmmmm..(droolin')

Friendship Park..How Pretty..??

With its cloudy golden yellow evening sky, with green grasses and weeping willow trees and red bottle brush flowers painting a garden all-too-perfect, along with a large reservoir of fish pond, a place where you can see kids running around from one end to another holding fish foods or breads throwing them to the fishes of various colors, size and species, it all seems like a view in dreams for us who are living in todays' modern world.

This might all be just a masquerade. Somewhere at the far ends at the corner of the seemingly almost-perfect painting is all burnt down as irresponsible people of the community, as damned as they are to you and me, so are they to mother nature!

A place so nice that it is being charred by these....

This is just one side of the picture you see.. the other side's even worse! Rubbish rubbish RuBbish EVERYWHERE at the corners of the pond!

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Result???!?!?!?

Yeah...I know what you're thinking...

You and me both brother!!!

Friendship Park.

Sunday market at tHe Spring Shopping Mall

Sunday Market is now in Spring!!

Come take a look!!

Only until the 14th of June...

not much..but...watcha gotta lose?