Friday, October 17, 2008

Facts of life

Why do we, sometimes, tend to fall for the opposite gender without ourselves knowing what started it and how we could ever have gotten involved in it at a certain age. Our friends and peers may step into that world earlier and some later, and perhaps some might not even step into that world at all. Love is their only reason, some true, some not, some might still be in the verge of making it true and perhaps for some, might just well be for fun.

I think we were made into this world in an imbalance state, as the two different sexes, needing each other in this world to live a better life. Ladies are more to being careful, thinking more of relationship bonds, being more sensitive in matters, even small matters, caring for those little delicate things in and outside life.

Guys instead, they are more of a risk-taker. They somehow ignore, say, the chances of falling from a ladder, their kids getting a nasty scratch on the knee from a probable fall from climbing a tree or car. Dads might let their kids to try something risky, but for moms, they’ll take all those risks into account and discourage her kids to even attempt something as minor as cutting a paper for the very reason of maternal protection instinct. Another, guys tend to be more physical and ladies tend to resort to brain power. Now, having either one only would render life incomplete, lacking something of the other pole to balance out the overweight.

Come to think of it, being together in a relationship, there are alot of the opposite, repelling ‘forces’ but at the same time, without that ‘repelling force’, life would, in a way, be incomplete. Talk about gambling. All those chances. Ain’t it amazing? Life.......... Appreciate it... Its wonderful.. Amazing....!! Cherish it!

1 comment:

Yen Xue said...

wow... talk til so deep ah.... don like that ma.... u talk til so so so experience o! hahah.... then wanna ask u, if gal ask u when u start falling in love how to answer? say "from the day i first met u" meh? so fake and so oficial ans le....
BTW, I REALLY AIN'T IN LOVE... THAT DAY ONLY CRAP!

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